Create a safe space, where people are treated with sensitivity and emotional intelligence, and watch your staff and customer loyalty soar, says Olajide Alabi
The hospitality industry prides itself on offering unique experiences, yet often overlooks the essence of what makes them memorable: a true sense of belonging. As a large, Black, gay man, I’ve encountered hospitality that has ranged from transformative to downright disheartening. Those experiences have shown me that inclusion is not just a buzzword, it’s a competitive advantage.
At one restaurant I visited, the atmosphere was beautiful but the service lacked soul. From receptionists avoiding eye contact to dismissive waiting staff, their discomfort was palpable. Maya Angelou’s words come to mind: “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” This was one of those forgettable experiences.
“Diversity is being invited to the party; inclusion is being asked to dance”
In contrast, at a London hotel I stayed at, a concierge’s authentic warmth created an extraordinary connection. They remembered my name and recommended LGBTQ+ events without prompting – to be fair, I was with my fiancé, so let’s not assume they relied on stereotypes! But that level of care transcended the transactional, proving that inclusivity is felt when it’s genuine.
The business case for inclusion is undeniable. A Harvard Business Review study found that companies with diverse leadership see 19% more innovation revenue. Meanwhile, the Chartered Institute of Personnel and Development highlights that inclusive workplaces have 60% lower turnover rates. These are not abstract metrics; they reflect the power of connection and belonging.
Verna Myers said it best: “Diversity is being invited to the party; inclusion is being asked to dance.” But I say it all the time: let’s stop talking about the party and focus on the dance moves and the dance floor. What are the systems and environments that enable everyone to truly feel the rhythm, join in, and shine?
Belonging starts with deliberate action:
Redefine leadership training Equip managers with emotional intelligence skills to foster environments where everyone feels seen and valued. Simon Sinek reminds us: “Customers will never love a company until the employees love it first.”
Make onboarding more inclusive Introduce the company’s values in meaningful ways, sharing real stories that connect new hires to the culture from day one.
Host listening sessions Move beyond annual surveys. Regular listening groups in safe spaces allow staff to share experiences and feel heard.
Track tangible metrics Monitor qualitative feedback and retention rates alongside guest reviews for terms like “inclusive” or “warm”. Adjust based on these insights.
Empower guest empathy Train staff to go beyond “How can I help?” and instead ask, “What would make this extraordinary for you?”
Belonging impacts every facet of hospitality. Inclusive workplaces lead to happier teams who, in turn, deliver exceptional guest experiences. When people feel safe and valued, loyalty – both internal and external – soars. As Brené Brown said: “Connection is the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued.”
This isn’t about diversity quotas or ticking boxes. It’s about understanding people on a deeper level to create spaces where they thrive. By embracing inclusion as a strategy, hospitality operators can elevate their offerings, not just to meet expectations but to leave a lasting, positive impression.
Olajide Alabi is co-creator and people experience leader at recruitment consultancy Sisu www.thisissisu.co.uk
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